Here, Jimmy.
It seems you are somehow unfamiliar or solely uncomfortable with desire independent from social norms or others' perception- that’s sad to me!
You’ve never bought something because it was shiny or colorful, rather than to impress others?
You’ve never purchased a food because of how good it smelled? Only to make your date think more of you?
Wanting a flat chest is carnal. It’s something ingrained within me. This doesnt make me a man!
You still havent acknowledged the fact that the gender binary is just that, and many, MANY of us arent inside of it. This breaks your whole idea!